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Sonia
Frantz
UPDATE: 32 Years
November 28, 1994
Dear Dr. Cooper:
I saw you on the "Crusaders" on TV the other night and
you looked great. I knew I would have to contact you, as although
I haven't seen you in many years, you have always been in my prayers.
You are wonderful and have done wonderful things for me. Let me
start at the beginning:
Almost thirty years ago, when I was a young mother of four active
children, I had lost my voice and was directed to an Ear Nose and
Throat specialist that promptly removed a polyp from my -vocal cords.
He assured me that all would be well and frightened me with tales
of cancer and death if I delayed. Six months after the surgery when
I could not yet speak he said I could speak and that I had a psychological
problem and my muteness was a neurotic reaction. I checked back
with my physician who knew me for many years and thought the E.N.T.'s
diagnosis was hasty. He suggested I relax go on a vacation and not
even try to use my voice for a week or so. I did this but still
could not speak. I did make at noise that sounded like a frog but
that was all I could do. My husband and children were very cooperative
but I was then getting very apprehensive of going out alone, after
all I could not yell if I had an accident or got stuck in an elevator.
I began to feel depressed after weeks more went by and I still had
no voice. Finally I consented to see a psychologist. He gave me
numerous tests which resulted in "no buttons missing, you seem
O.K. to me."
At this point I had spent a year with no voice. I wore a whistle
around my neck to summon my kids. I could not tell them I loved
them. I could not make my presence known without "croaking"
my frog voice. I carried a little pad to write on and show to people
if I needed something. I had many humiliating experiences. One that
was typical was when I went to buy some perfume and handed the clerk
a note explaining what I wanted only to hear her say to another
clerk "look at that poor creature, she is so cute and she is
'deaf' I and dumb". I wrote the 'IF,, word on my pad and left
the store.' Hot tears rolled down my face all the way home. I stopped
playing Bridge at the clubs as I could not call out my bids. I envisioned
myself going through life hearing our men friends tell my husband
how fortunate he was "'cause she can't yell back", They
did not consider that I could also not answer the phone nor whisper
words of love. Being voiceless was changing the quality of my life.
Next came the endless and sometimes senseless "helpful', suggestions
from doctors as well as lay people. I drank warm olive oil - ughl;
kept a warm towel around my throat; tried to speak with marbles
in my mouth; drank herbal concoctions and even went to a psychic
healer all to no avail.
After all of the above and much, much more, I resigned myself to
a speechless life. Then one night my husband came home and told
me of another doctor he had heard about that was helping people
in worse condition than me. I did not want to go to another disappointment
but to appease him I did. This E.N.T., told us he had persuaded
you, Dr. Cooper, to come to the San Fernando Valley one night a
week and use his of f ice to work with people such as myself. He
said you worked magic. magic indeed, I thought, but I went and I
met you Morty Cooper and it became one of the-beat days of my life.
My "croak" did not even make you wince. You said I would
be speaking within six months (I did not believe that) but 1, had
to do every thing you told me to do. I was willing to have you pull
out my fingernails if it would help but you would have none of that.
Then the business started. Suffice it say I hated having you tape
my "croaks" but I did, I also did all of the voice exercises,
and still do when necessary. Laying a f inger on the side of my
nose and saying me - me - me- also, I still hear you saying "pitch
up" higher and higher I went. I practiced day and night. my
kids would say "there she goes again with the me's", even
my dog got up and left the room with the first me - me out of Me.
Also, I had to affect f ect a rather peculiar stance when I was
learning to breathe properly. You know the technique so I do not
have to say more about that.
Six months passed and I could speak. I had a voice and people could
hear me. I could verbally communicate. I loved it! I was happy with
it such as it was, but you were not.YOU pushed me further and further
to heights I did not even aspire to. I really got a good voice.
It did not sound like the original one that started all of the trouble,
but it is O.K., and as a matter of fact many people compliment me
on my voice. when I think of what I sounded like when I first went
to see you I could cry, but this time my tears would be of gratitude
not despair.
I owe you and thank you more than I can ever tell you. Also, I
know that your battles over stupidity and ignorance are not over.
I also know that despite the challenges of your adversaries, you,
with your treatment and understanding will always win.
Again I want to say thank you for getting me out of my pain and.
wish for you to go on in good health and happiness ever.
Sincerely,

Sonia Frantz
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